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Hi! Am here via the Vox Home page "recent entries" thing...I just wanted to say I totally sympathize with you over the stupid co-workers thing. Now, I've never been pregnant, but honestly - there's something about pregnant woman that can really bring out the stupid in certain people. I've seen it happen a lot, and it's always made me want to whack people up their backside.

The one thing that freaks me out are the people that just come up and touch the pregnant woman's tummy *without permission* and start asking impertinent questions. Heck, I've had relatives come up and touch *my* tummy without permission and ask if I've got anything in there (read: pregnant yet). ::shudder::

I came up with the perfect rejoinder for such nastiness, though - if I'm asked if I have anything "in there", I go, "Sure I do! All my internal organs are in there, the last time I checked. And lots of fat." ::grin:: I lost PR points by the dozen on that one, but there are no more impertinent questions.

Congratulations and jubilations on the coming birth!
Before I was pregnant, people would do the same thing to me. One person even did it one week after my honeymoon. I told her that if I were pregnant, the belly wasn't from baby, but from fat.

When people reach out and rub my stomach now, I just reach out and rub their stomach in return. Some people get the hint that, even though I am pregnant, rubbing my belly is an invasion of personal space. Some people just look at me oddly when I do that.

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